Wedding rituals have had a huge part to play as far as the union of two individuals are concerned. Millennials and gen z are calling back old traditions with multiple variations that are more up to their taste and values. The millennials are putting a spin to all aspects. These include the outfits, the venue, the technology to the guest lists, and manifesting their own style.
The transition away from traditional norms is evident in various aspects of contemporary weddings. Gender-specific wedding parties, ceremonies in religious institutions, and matching attire are declining in popularity. These are replaced by more personalized and inclusive approaches. The Knot’s Annual Real Weddings Study highlights these shifts, indicating a departure from conventional practices among young couples.
What does the study say?
Pop culture holds a large part of the pie in the shape of contemporary weddings. The trend of music choices, has evolved. For example, the song “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Elvis Presley overtakes many other songs like “Perfect” of Ed Sheeran. This shows the relationship between important events and music. Also, technological advancements are being increasingly adopted. QR codes and paperless communication becomes widely used in wedding planning.
Apart from that, financial considerations too appear to considerably impact wedding decisions. Scrimping on direct expenditure becomes the answer to the question of rising prices. Hence, decor is simplified and kid-free receptions are preferred. Along with budgetary restraints, individuals have a common goal to design an event as unconsciously as possible which will narrate their story.
Caitlyn and Dylan Spain’s decision to celebrate their union in a sensational, traditional wedding is a unique representation of the pattern that millennials are following. They preferred a venue with a historic background that, at the same time, spoke about their origin and way of life. The fact that they did it in their own fashion with limited supplies tell us about creativity and simplicity. Even then it was been shared by Edwin Torres-DeSantiago and Ricardo DeSantiago-Torres. They also held a wedding ceremony that melded their cultural identities and assertions of a political stand. Their choice of a unique venue and diverse vendors reflects a desire for meaningful representation and inclusivity.
Giving it a personalized spin
At last, these unconventional weddings as well their brides and grooms give an opportunity for romantic expression, uniqueness, and a battle with historical and cultural patterns. Millennials and GenZers, by personalizing the wedding ecosystem to their personalities and heritages, are increasingly changing the weddings into a personalized and purposeful event. These become compatible with their values and identities. I visualize wedding culture transforming along with my generations. In the midst of creation and being authentic, creativity and originality emerge as the centerpiece. Abandoning the principles of ‘norms’ and paving their individual ways, the spouses are not only proving their devotion but also leaving an everlasting sign on the marriage.
