Ever thought about how dogs feel when they don’t get to make any decisions? Imagine if someone chose your clothes, meals, friends, and bedtime—every single day. You’d feel frustrated, right? That’s kind of what life is like for dogs who never get to choose.
Dogs Deserve Some Say
Dogs are living beings with feelings. When they’re given choices, they’re generally calmer, happier, and more confident. Experts like Dr. Susan Friedman say dogs who can make decisions are less likely to act out or develop behavioral problems. Having control, just a little, helps them feel more secure in their world.
What Kind of Choices Can Dogs Make?
You don’t need to let your dog rule the house. But there are many safe, simple choices they can make:
- Going in or staying out: Let them sniff around longer if they’re enjoying the outdoors.
- Choosing a walk route: If it’s safe, follow where your pup wants to go. New smells = new joy.
- Picking a toy: Dogs have favorites! Give them a few options and let them decide.
- Saying no to social time: Don’t force them to meet every guest or dog. Let them chill.
- Training breaks: Some days, they just aren’t feeling it. Let them opt out sometimes.
- Food/treat options: Let them pick between two safe treats—they’ll tell you what they like!
Why It Matters
Choices build trust. When your dog knows they’re not going to be forced into situations, they feel safer with you. That safe bond can reduce stress and even prevent issues like fear or aggression. Plus, watching your dog confidently make little decisions is wholesome.
Keep It Safe
Of course, safety comes first. Don’t give choices that can put your dog in danger (like running in traffic). But within boundaries, a bit of freedom goes a long way.
Final Thoughts
Giving your dog choices isn’t about spoiling them—it’s about giving them a better, happier life. It deepens your bond and makes them feel like part of the team.
Oh, and if you’re considering food choices? Dogs go wild for MegaBowl—real ingredients, tail-wagging flavors. That’s what choice should taste like.
